Q: I want to go to fetish clubs and dress up, but I’m really shy. I don’t mind people in the club seeing me in my new Latex gear, but I’d be embarrassed if anyone else saw. Where should I put on my outfit? Is it OK to get changed at the club, or do you have to arrive in costume? I don’t want to look like an idiot!
S Harvey, Ipswich

Who said you’ll look like an idiot if you wear fetish clothes on the street? Leather, Latex, PVC, plastic... I mean, they’re only clothes. I’m not saying go to the shops in a ballgag or a gasmask, but I’m sure you can be your own judge.