I often get emails from people saying they're afraid to attend fetish parties. I admit I was scared the first time, too. I imagined the minute I entered the club I'd see a bunch of naked people running towards me like crazy cowboys, flipping their bullwhips in the air like I was about to become their sacrificed lamb. But I went regardless of my fears, and I was surprised to see how the guests looked exactly the same as they do in regular clubs.

I had fun at that club, but my misconception of fetish parties made me think I could have sex in the venue, which I did; however, public sex is forbidden in Montreal and I got kicked out.